Here it is!
"Here
what is, Peg?" you ask.
Here's the
last day, of the last month, of the year 2017.
Christmas has
come and gone and it occurs to me that I didn't brag on the gifts I received
this year. But I have to tell you, having all of you in my heart and my life is
all the gift I need. Nonetheless, Mike, who's a pretty great husband — I know!
I know! No one is more surprised by that than I am. When I married Mike, I was perfectly
happy to take him just the way he was and yet he's changed. He's become a
partner, a true helpmate even. Being married has changed him and he's a better
husband than he ever was a boyfriend — and he was a pretty good boyfriend.
But I
digress.
Mike got me
an electric blanket. Last winter, we had just gone to bed when I smelled
something electrical getting hot. I'm sure you know the smell. We tracked it
down to the controller of my electric blanket. The smoke curling out the side
of it was a dead give-away. I unplugged it and threw it away. Having a warm bed
isn't worth burning your house down for. It was late enough in the year that we
didn't replace it. So Santa brought me a new blanket this year and I'm very
pleased with my gift. I do hate crawling into a cold bed at night. And just so
you don't worry, let me tell you that I always turn it off before I go to
sleep.
Rosie also
gave me a spatula that says Christmas
calories don't count! And it's a good thing they don't either because she
gave us a tray of homemade cookies too.
"Lamar, I've
been working on those cookies and I've got them almost all gone!" I told
him at church the next day.
He laughed
and said, "That'a girl."
Okay, okay! I
hear you! "Cookies aren't good for your diet," you say.
I know right!
But I rationalized it away. We're all good at rationalization when it suits us,
aren't we. Christmas comes but once a year, is one excuse, and Rosie bakes the
best cookies — and fudge. She made fudge too. I'll hit it hard again after New Year's and I'll be good
until at least Valentine's Day. Besides, I have a goal and my goal is to start
interval running again in the spring. I figure I need to lose ten more pounds
by then and that seems doable to me.
I didn't
expect a gift from this beautiful lady and maybe that's what makes it all the
more remarkable. The Christmas card was a pretty Chickadee on a branch of red
berries. I love Chickadees.
"Peg!
That's what you said about Nuthatches!"
I know,
right! What can I say.
"It's a
book," I guessed when Judy handed me the Christmas wrapped present.
"Yeah,
but it's not what you think," Judy said.
It's almost
like she could read my mind. I was thinking maybe she got me my own copy of One Light Still Shines, or maybe another
Christian book.
"Can I
open it?" I asked.
"Yeah,
sure. Go ahead."
I very
unceremoniously tore the paper off! It wasn't the least little bit dainty like,
you know what I mean? I've seen women open presents one piece of tape at a time
— taking achingly forever! — trying not to rip the paper as if they might reuse
it! Geesh! Not me! I tore into it like a four-year-old on Christmas morning! I
briefly wondered what Judy thought of my gift opening technique, then I threw
that thought right out the window and didn't spend any more time worrying about
it.
"A
journal and a matching bookmark!" I was delighted with the gift she'd
given me. It was perfect for a project I had in mind.
"What's
that Peg?" you wonder.
I've had in
my head now, for a couple of weeks, that I would like to start a Thankfulness
Journal, or maybe a Prayer Journal, or maybe it'll end up being a combination
of the two. Theoretically, if you find something to be thankful for every day,
then you can go back and read it when you're feeling blue, and it'll make you
feel better — theoretically. And with prayers, you can look back and see how
God has answered your prayers. Maybe it won't be this month or next and maybe
not for many years. Remember what the apostle Peter tells us; With the Lord one day is as a thousand
years, and a thousand years as one day. (2 Peter 3:8)
And now I
have a beautiful journal just perfect for the project, and no excuse not to do
it.
We had a guy
come and haul our scrap metal away. Donnie Kipp is a nephew to Lamar Kipp and
lives in Tennessee. He was back up in this neck of the woods for Christmas and
he scraps for extra income. His wife Kim helped him so Mike didn't have to and
now our metal scrap pile is reduced to practically nothing. Some of it was
frozen to the ground and he couldn't break it free, so there's a little left,
but not much.
They have a six-year-old
daughter. "Mom! Look at the ice!" Megan said spotting a frozen
puddle.
"Yeah, I
see it. She'd like to have a pond to go ice skating on," Kim said.
"I have
a pond and it's got ice on it. Can I take her down and show her?"
"Sure,"
Kim agreed as she zipped into her cold weather overalls.
"Megan,
do you want to go see my pond?" I asked.
"Yeah!"
And off we
went. On the way there we found another puddle that had frozen over.
"Here's some more ice," I said.
Megan was
happy to test it with her foot. When it didn't crack she put more weight on it,
then she stomped it. Finally, in an effort to crack the ice, Megan jumped on
the ice with both feet.
"Oh no!"
you say.
Oh yes! And
down she went. THUMP! Hard onto her butt.
"Are you
okay?" I asked.
"Noooo-oh-oh,"
Megan whimpered.
"Can you
get up?"
Rather than
answer, she got to her feet, and rubbed her backside.
"Did it
hurt?"
"Ye-ess,"
she answered and her voice cracked. She'd been doing a super-duper job of
keeping her tears in check up to that point.
"Are you
going to cry?" I wondered aloud.
She didn't
answer but she didn't cry either. After a minute or so we continued on our way
to the pond. The pond isn't very deep and with all the cold we'd been having, I
thought it might be frozen the whole way through. I stepped on the ice and it cracked.
I stepped back off the ice.
"Can we
go over there?" Megan asked, pointing to the other side.
"Sure."
And we walked around the pond.
I tried the
ice on that side and it cracked too, so I didn't let Megan get on the pond. We
headed back to where Donnie and Kim were sorting through the scrap pile. They
hadn't yet made a dent in it. It was cold and I didn't want to stay out, and I
didn't feel right about leaving the six-year-old out in the weather either. I
did the only thing I could think to do. "Megan and I are going in,
okay?"
"Okay,"
Kim responded.
So Megan and
I went in the house.
Walking in
the door I yelled, "We're here!" to give Mike a heads up. "I
brought Megan in with me!" Then I turned to Megan. "Take your boots
off here at the door," I told her and she did. She slipped out of her
boots, coat, hat, mittens, and scarf, throwing them over a chair. After
shedding my outdoor gear, I went to the sink to draw a cup of water for coffee
and sat at my desk to wait for the microwave to do its magic.
Megan came
back from the living room where Mike was watching TV. "Look what I
got," she said and held up a cookie. Mike obviously opened up his recliner-side
stash of snacks and gave her one.
"You've
got a cookie! You want a glass of milk to go with that?"
"Yeah!"
She enthusiastically nodded her head, her hair flying about her face. "I
can dunk my cookie!"
I set Megan
up to the breakfast bar and got her a glass of milk. As soon as I set it in
front of her, she tried to dunk her cookie. It was too big — or the glass was
too small. "Break it in half," I said and she did.
She sat there,
her feet swinging back and forth, and happily ate her cookie. Macchiato, our
tabby, strolled out from the other room. "I'm allergic to cats,"
Megan declared.
"Really!
Should you be in here then? I have two cats."
She twisted
on the bar stool, "Where's the other one?"
"I don't
know. After you finish your cookie and milk we'll go look for her."
That last
piece of cookie disappeared into her mouth so fast it was like magic! I must of
looked surprised because Megan put her hand over her mouth and sheepishly
giggled.
"Are you
going to drink your milk?" I asked.
She shook her
head no, her mouth was too full to talk, and I was reminded of that feisty
redheaded neighbor of mine. Rosie doesn't like milk and yet she puts it on her
morning cereal. "Then I'll very carefully get cereal on my spoon with the
least amount of milk I can get," Rosie told me. "And when the
cereal's gone, I won't drink the milk." Maybe Megan is like that. Maybe
she likes to dunk her cookie in the milk but doesn't like the milk.
"Okay,
then, let's go." I got up from my seat at the desk and led the way to the
bedroom, thinking Molly might be sleeping on the bed. She wasn't. But Megan
looked down the hallway and spotted my closet.
"Do you
have high heels?" she asked.
"Yeah,"
I answered. "I do." We went into the closet and I reached for the
shoebox on top of a stack. I flipped the lid off and pulled out a pair of
heels.
Megan's eyes
got real big. She sucked her breath in and reached for them. "Can I try
them on?"
I laughed.
"Sure. Go ahead." What little girl doesn't like to wear high heels?
She took the heels from me and looked around. "What's the matter?"
"You can
sit right there," I said indicating the raised floor of my cedar-lined
closet.
"I don't
know if I can...."
I didn't
understand what her problem was, "Why?"
"My
butt..."
I smiled. She
didn't complain about her butt when she hopped up onto the barstool to eat her
cookie. "There's a towel there, you can sit on that. It'll be softer for
you."
Megan
hem-hawed for a few more minutes, then she sat.
The next hour
was spent with Megan trying on all of my heels and me snapping pictures as she
walked up down the length of the closet. "Just like a runway model!"
I told her and she beamed.
"I can
walk in these!" She exclaimed totally pleased with herself. Then under her
breath she added, "If I dig my toes in."
It took
Donnie and Kim a couple of hours to clean up my scrap pile. Megan and I went to
check on them once during that time but again, I couldn't just leave her out
there. We went back inside. This time she saw our Rummikub game sitting on the
table.
"What's
this?" she asked.
"A
game."
"Do you
have Domino's?"
"I do!
Do you play Domino's?"
She shook her
head no. "I just line them up and knock them over."
"Do you
want to learn to play?"
"Yes!"
We spent the
rest of the visit drawing and matching Domino's and that's where Kim and Donnie
found us when they came for Megan.
I'll tell you
what. I got my grandmother fix, that's for sure!
Wednesday the
temperatures dropped and it was really, really cold! Our water froze but just
at the kitchen sink, so it didn't put much of a hinky in our life.
The pond was
frozen solid! I walked out and looked for pictures from a perspective I seldom
see — the middle of my pond.
The sun shone
through the ice coating the cattails.
The Bittersweet covered in ice crystals.
The
wind shaped the icicles.
"Peg?"
you wonder.
I don't know, don't ask me. I take pictures of weird stuff
sometimes.
When we were out I noticed I didn't have any cats following
me. That hardly ever happens! I decided to take advantage of it and take Ginger
for a walk down Robinson Road. The sawhorse is at the end of the back driveway
holding a NO TRESSPASSING sign.
Ice built up on the surrounding weeds and branches.
Ginger didn't want to go down the bank for the culvert
picures so I tied her at the top. She looks like she's ready to go, doesn't
she.
I love this picture of two fence posts. Like the cattails
at the pond, the weeds here are coated in ice and the sun shining through makes
it look like silver. This picture is my current desktop.
Castoffs.
The Robinson's barn.
Round hales of bay.... err.... bales
of hay.
"What? Take off your coat and hang it up?" you
ask.
Well, yeah, but after that I mean! I put water in the
microwave for coffee. It's like the first thing I do whenever I come in. I do
love my coffee!
As I stood at the sink waiting for the microwave, the sun
came through the window and shone on the Bittersweet sprigs framing my loves.
Our shopping trip this week yielded a couple of pictures
for you.
This
is the same railroad bridge I had in last week's letter blog, but this time I
snapped the picture from the other side of the road. I like the play of light and
dark much better in this shot.
Well guys, let me tell you something.
"What?" you ask.
This letter blog only takes me up to Friday. I have more stories
and more pictures but methinks this is quite enough jibber-jabber for this time.
Let's call this one done!
And I'll see you in the new year!